Growing Up Judgmental
Nechama Robinson grew up in an Orthodox Jewish household that lead Nechama down some interesting roads. In what she describes as a “judgemental culture,” Nechama never strayed away from conflict. After years of an abusive relationship, a singular betrayal of trust was enough to make Nechama stand up for herself and begin living life on her terms.
“If you’re not feeling better in a week you need to attend the support group.”
Nechama found herself in a depressive state after being betrayed by her husband. A deep love for her daughter was the only thing keeping her going. Soon after she found herself at a women's support group where her entire life changed. She realized then that she had to change the way she was living her life, or else there wouldn’t be a life to live.
UnConflict
After struggling with defunct personality quizzes that don’t take individuality into account Nechama decided to create her own. The UnConflict resolution method uses its client-centered, 9-personality framework to understand who you are. This understanding makes it possible to establish a common language for moving past stressful conflicts efficiently and thoroughly. Each of the nine personalities brings together two basic aspects of the human experience. These two components answer the questions:
Which sphere of life is the home base of our identity
Society
Mind
Body
What experience is our strongest motivator to push past life’s challenges
Discovering
Making a difference
Healing the chaos
Learning about yourself is a superpower
Nechama has discovered a way to help all of us learn more about ourselves, our motivations, and our desires. Her scientific-based approach is fascinating, to say the least.
Learn more and connect with Nechama
You can find more about Nechama and her work on her Website. You can also find her podcast Speaking of Humanity wherever you listen to your podcasts. Make sure you check her out on Facebook Instagram and Twitter.
